Friday, September 6, 2013

No Rush


"If you're in a rush, you must not like where you are." ~TJ Wolfe

My wife is 8 months pregnant, at the moment. When she gives me "the call" I will move very quickly, and that's understandable. However, moving very quickly through life every day, all the time is something different.

What if...

What if spending two extra minutes with a student allows them to open up and tell you what's really bothering them, and causing the undesirable behavior?

What if asking one more question to your spouse gets them to open up and tell you how they really feel because you do want to hear what they have to say?

What if you spent two extra minutes to type in a praise to a colleague who's done a great job, but doesn't always get credit?

What if you spent five more minutes sitting quietly on a park bench with no distractions, just you and a few thoughts to work through?

What would these little extras give you? A better relationship with your student? A deeper connection with your spouse? A better working environment? A less stressful day, and a peace and calm that carry you through the week?

We rush here and there and don't take the time to do the extra things that matter. Let's spend more time on what matters and less on the things that don't!

Image by Johnragai